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No link between alcohol and depression

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Phil A, Nov 28, 2017.

  1. longk

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    I have been quite open about it over the years on here. To be honest I think that it is harder on those close to me.

    Truth be told it was easy to avoid people poking their noses in by convincing them that it was a one off event as a result of circumstances. I tried all sorts of help over the years, CBT being the most useful. Ultimately though the turning point came when I was having a dark day and it all became clear - this is how it is so stop fighting it, accept it for what it is and move on. So I'm still a miserable sod who has dark moments but they pass much quicker without me tying my head up in knots. Basically just a tailored take on CBT.
    Maybe if I'd accepted meds it may have helped but if I'm being honest I dislike the effect that they've had on people that I know, including my brother.
     
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      It's what is known as being Human, longk:dunno::snorky:
       
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        So as I'm really good at being a miserable sod does that mean that I'm almost perfect!
        Actually, I've quit the booze, quit the recreationals so if I can just kick the fags I will be perfect :heehee:
         
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          No :nonofinger: it's what's known as being lonk! :slaphead: (Blimey, Our Mandy, don't take away the guy's one claim to fame! :rolleyes: )

          :heehee:
           
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            Actually, I've quit the booze, quit the recreationals so if I can just kick the fags I will be perfect :heehee:[/QUOTE]

            Perfect is overrated.... and boring!!
             
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              Nope, longk has many other qualities that we've come to know other than being a self acclaimed "miserable Sod" and so has more than one claim to fame, "M", and he's a Human Being:dunno::heehee:
               
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                :scratch: :think2: :Think: He is? :thud:
                 
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                  I would say that, depending what stage of alcohol addiction you are at, it can definitely affect your mood.
                   
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                    Welcome to Gardeners Corner :sign0016:
                     
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                      I'll drink to that!!:thumbsup::snorky: Welcome to Gardeners Corner, dacony.:love30::snorky:
                       
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