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Trust No One.

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Mike Allen, Feb 28, 2021.

  1. pattie

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    FC, Armandii and ricky, your responses have reassured me. I'd like to thank the Admin team for all the hard work you do to ensure we're all as safe as possible on the forum.
    I try to stick to gardening issues and will never knowingly give any personal details to anyone.
    I wonder if the OP was genuinely concerned, as I, or simply mischiefmaking? It's a shame, though, if we get to the point of 'trusting no one', as friends.
     
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    • ricky101

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      Not in any way talking about anyone in this forum, but as you know, typed words and pictures put up on the screen can be from anyone and can come from those evil scammers who use false identities on dating sites or pretend they are young childen after similiar friends etc etc.

      Afraid its the sad reality of the wild west web we have.

      As you say, just stick to related conversation without giving any personal info out, you can never be too safe, just like anyone knocking on your door you do not let them in unless you already know them. Even more true for us oldies who are not as quick off the mark these days.
       
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      • Nikolaos

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        I very much doubt it was mischief-making, sounded more like a mixture of concern and curiosity to me. :dunno:

        Nick
         
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        • shiney

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          Hey! Speak for yourself! :old: :roflol:
           
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            Unfortunately, the worry that these sort of questions can cause is the reason why we ask members to first ask Admin by PM. We can allay any fears without it possibly causing worry for other members as stated so very well in post #5.

            If a member has a concern about anything already posted on GC it is quite easy to just click on 'report' at the bottom of the thread and say what you may be concerned about in the box that comes up. This doesn't put a black mark against the original poster it just simply brings our attention to it. :)

            We're only too happy to help. :blue thumb:
             
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            • Jiffy

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              Some one tryed to con me, it was a friend untill i stopped him in his tracks :thumbsup: he is now not a friend, but he did say " It's better to be con-ed by some one you know than some one you don't know"

              Even the some police don't tell you the truth and try to lead you up the garden path
               
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              • pattie

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                Yes, shiney, that's exactly what I mean.I'm relatively new on here and the issue being brought up by a long time experienced poster had me wonder what was going on.
                I hope Mike hasn't taken offence at what I said.
                 
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                • ARMANDII

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                  @pattie

                  I don't think anyone has taken offence, pattie:dunno: What this thread has, inadvertently, done has brought to long standing and new members of GC an understanding of the precautions, methods, workings that Admin have been practicing for years.
                  Admin try to stay in the background and rarely step into a thread or post unless there is a need to do so. Most of the hours that are spent by the Admin Team dealing with issues usually goes unnoticed and and unsaid because maybe that shows that we might be getting it right:dunno::heehee:
                  Also it might alert the GC Gang that other Forums don't take the precautions and constant monitoring that keeps GC members able to post freely, while not giving out personal information such as addresses etc on the Open Forum, without having to worry but on other internet sites they might post information that they might think private but is, in fact, there for everyone to read.
                  So, all we have to do now is going on enjoying the friendliness, compassion, and gardening knowledge and experience that we have in the GC Gang.
                   
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                  • Purple Streaks

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                    Their has been a lot of talk about spammers on this thread.
                    I'm sorry for appearing 'thick' and not very computer savvy. (let's blame me age !!!)
                    but can you tell me what exactly the spammers hope to get out of this,??
                    :scratch:
                     
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                      They usually want to sell something, or get you to click on a link that then takes you to another site away from GC and infects your computer and/or harvests your information. It always comes down to money in the end. We care about our members here, and won't let them in to do this.
                       
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                        @Purple Streaks I've been here a lot over the years and have yet to come across anything that worried me. We're in good hands :)
                         
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                        • Purple Streaks

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                          Thankyou all,

                          Hasnt really worried me its just that Ive never been able to understand what a spammer gains:what: from jiggering someones computer up. :gaah:
                          I have the Norton so I presume Im ok.
                           
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                            They want you to visit another site to spend money there or trick you out of money
                             
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                            • Purple Streaks

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                              Thank you all........
                              As they say......:old:never too old to learn in this learning curve :old: !!!!!!!
                               
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                                You can all count yourselves lucky to belong to this site. I belong to another one which I joined in 2008 (and which shall remain nameless) where there are many spam blogs and photos, with links for you to click on etc
                                and the members themselves have to flag them, and eventually (maybe by the next day) they are removed.

                                The trouble is that the people who created the site don't bother with it, and have handed the 'looking after' of it to a volunteer, who doesn't take part in the forum at all except to delete these posts when he notices they've been flagged.

                                I must say in its defence though, I used to enjoy that site and have made several good friends there, but I don't look at it much now. Lots of the 'old' members have left.

                                So here's a big THANK YOU ! to the admin people on here for all the work you do :thankyou:
                                 
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